Finally. An app built for the relationships that matter.

The app that helps youbuild new friendships over dinner with friends of friendsbuild new friendships over dinner with friends of friendsreconnect with people life got in the way ofmeet interesting colleagues across departmentsnever lose touch with your best friendget a warm intro to anyone you needturn acquaintances into real relationshipsbuild community, not just a contact listinvest in the people who matter most to youexpand your circle through the people you already trustnurture the acquaintances that could change your lifeunlock new opportunities through people you already knowinvest in every relationship that deserves your attentiondeepen and expand your professional relationshipsmanage every relationship in your life, effortlesslybe the person who always remembers, never loses touch

Others help you connect. IRL helps you build the relationships that matter.

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Inside the app

This is what you actually get.

The Nurture tab: four people worth reaching out to today, each with a reason and a single button.A chat thread where @irl is asked to set up coffee, and confirms it has sent the invitation.The AI connector suggesting someone to meet, with what the two people have in common.Suggested people to connect with, each one reached through a mutual friend rather than cold.The Gather tab: booking a coffee, dinner or walk in a few taps.Events hosted by people in your circles, showing who is hosting and how many spots are left.Your people grouped into circles, with reminders and notes on each one.A member profile showing an ID Verified badge, their work, city and bio.

Warm Introductions

Every intro comes with context and a trusted mutual, no cold outreach, no awkward openers

Shared Tables

Join intimate dinners with friends of friends, and friends of those friends. The conversations that change everything start here

Your Relationship OS

Notes, reflections, and smart reminders that help you actually show up for people, even when life gets loud

Find Anyone, Instantly

Can't remember someone's name? Search everyone in your IRL by where you met, what they do, their city, or even notes you wrote about them

One Scan, Every Platform

Share your IRL and connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, WhatsApp, all at once, in a single scan

See Your Relationships Grow

Understand which connections you're investing in and bring intention to every relationship that matters to you

Introductions by AI

Tell IRL what you're looking for, a collaborator, a mentor, a kindred spirit, and AI quietly finds who you should meet. Fully opt-in.

Real stories

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Maybe one of them is you.

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The people who will change your life are already around you.

IRL helps you find them, connect with them, and keep them close.

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